I originally published this article in April 2019 to introduce Phase 2 Tactical. The story behind it still matters because it explains why I care about the decisions people make before, during, and after military service.
My military journey began when I was looking for direction after high school. I didn’t have a clear plan for my future, but I knew I wanted my life to change.
Where I Started
Growing up, I struggled with my weight, confidence, and social skills. I was an only child, had few friends, and was bullied at school.
I often avoided social situations and spent time alone playing video games or reading. By the time I finished high school, I wanted something different. I wanted to gain skills and experience, become more independent, and prove to myself that I could do more.
I also worried about letting myself and the people who cared about me down. The military seemed like a possible way forward, although I wasn’t sure I could make it.
Some people close to me discouraged me from joining. I had misconceptions about military life too, which made the decision harder to evaluate.
Taking the First Steps
Eventually, I visited a recruiter. I was initially rejected because of my weight and medication I was taking at the time.
That was part of my individual situation, not a guide to anyone else’s eligibility. Medical requirements and qualification decisions need to be addressed through the proper process, with treatment decisions handled by qualified medical professionals.
My path wasn’t immediate, but I eventually joined the U.S. Army. I served five years on active duty, including two years in South Korea near the DMZ and a 13-month combat tour in Iraq.
Military service changed my life. It gave me experiences, responsibilities, and skills that continued to matter after I left the Army.
What I Would Approach Differently
That doesn’t mean I made every decision well.
When I joined, I didn’t fully consider how my job specialty fit my interests and long-term goals. When I left, I didn’t have a well-developed transition plan. I spent years figuring out a civilian career direction that fit me.
Those experiences taught me that wanting a change and preparing for it are different things. Enthusiasm can get you moving, but the decisions along the way still need attention.
I wish I had asked better questions, researched my options more carefully, and thought further ahead. That’s part of why I created Phase 2 Tactical.
Why Phase 2 Tactical Exists
I help aspiring military recruits, service members, and veterans make strategic decisions at each phase of their military journey so they can maximize their outcomes, opportunities, and long-term success—in the military and beyond.
That means sharing practical guidance, lessons from my experience, and resources that help you better understand your options before making an important decision.
If you’re considering joining, start with The Military Recruit Playbook. If you’re preparing to leave, read Things to Consider Before Leaving the Military. And if you’re looking for support after service, explore the veteran resource guide.
You can also subscribe below for practical guidance and updates from Phase 2 Tactical. Wherever you are in your military journey, I want this site to help you prepare for the decisions ahead.
